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Divorce is generally associated with pain, cost, anxiety, fury, abandonment, frustration, uncertainty, loss of control, loneliness, unhappiness — and many more negative emotions.

Unfortunately, however, divorce is sometimes inevitable.

Nevertheless, YOU do NOT need to be a VICTIM — YOU can CONTROL your destiny. Collaborative Divorce is the way.

If you have children, YOU and your SPOUSE will ALWAYS be the PARENTS of your CHILDREN — for their sake, choose Collaborative Divorce.

As you choose (or are forced) to go down the path of life without your spouse, choose to be fair; choose to be an adult; choose to minimize all those negative emotions that can make life hell for you and your family — choose Collaborative Divorce.

What is Collaborative Divorce? Collaborative Divorce is process that is intended to maximize control and minimize uncertainty; it is a process by which YOU control your destiny, with the help of an attorney (and other professionals, as needed) trained in collaborative law, by engaging in pre-litigation negotiation to settle your divorce-related issues – your financial issues; your child-related issues; and any other issues that are relevant to you and your life situation.

The object of the process is to negotiate a fair Marital Settlement Agreement, which will be the basis of your divorce settlement. Divorce is not easy; but it need not be hell. Divorce need not devastate your family’s finances — your divorce can be the best beginning for the rest of your life.

I want to help — that is why I got trained in collaborative law, and published this website. If you want my help, please call me to schedule an appointment — I can be reached by telephone at (908)232-6500; or by Email. My Law Office is located at 116 South Euclid Avenue (Rear Entrance; 2nd Floor), Westfield, Union County, NJ 07090. [MAP]

For more information about Collaborative Divorce, go to: Recent NJ Collaborative Divorce Blog Posts; or *All Posts. Or, visit the Archives or Categories sections on the right side of this page.

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For other related information, go to my NJ Family Issues Blog; and for more information about me, go to KostroLaw.com.


Collaborative Divorce, Confidential Mediation, Conflict Management Services, Collaborative Law Services and other Legal Services are provided by Paul G. Kostro, A Professional Corporation, a law firm in Linden, N.J.

You are strongly encouraged to discuss your particular set of facts and issues with your attorney — however, if you wish to retain Paul G. Kostro, Esq. as your attorney or mediator, you are welcome to call (908)232-6500 or send an EM@IL to schedule an appointment.

Before making your choice of attorney or mediator, you should give this matter careful thought. The selection of an attorney or mediator is an important decision.  You may, if the information provided here is inaccurate or misleading, report same to the Committee on Attorney Advertising, Hughes Justice Complex, P.O. Box 037, Trenton, New Jersey 08625.

NOTE: If you believe that ANYTHING on this webpage is misspelled, incomplete, inaccurate or downright wrong; or if a link fails to link to its intended webpage, please send an EM@IL, expressing your concern or opinion.

My Law Office is located at: 116 South Euclid Avenue, Westfield (Union County), New Jersey. [MAP]

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